80 army soldiers increased the number of flash marriage mate preference virtuous girl type
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love and marriage is an important part of the values. Contemporary young men to “80,” which, they do not want conservative, traditional to keep a “certain distance”; their exposure to modern values ??and behavior of deep ideas diversified characteristics.
then, has become the primary building “main force” of them has a kind of feeling in the world? In the peach blossom season, the reporter walked into a division of Guangzhou Military Region, listen to “80″ officers and men of the marriage of new ideas.
[new term: flash marriage]
“older” of the fashion or the helpless
[Glossary] “flash marriage” is short for lightning marriage. Refers to the two men met after a short, not long after they establish communication and understanding of marriage. Choose this “fast food” type of love and marriage group called “flash marriage family.” The fastest to complete the process from love to marriage, more and more “80″ join “flash marriage” list.
[typical characters] Dengyi Huai, instructor, 28 years old, married six months
Deng Yihuai marriage with his wife, know each other less than a month. For why would a “flash marriage family,” he admitted, mainly due to family pressure.
Military Academy just graduated had never been seen, Deng Yihuai parents not worried handsome son would not find the object, but repeatedly told him not to worry. It seems the Montagnards, a giving rise to the young officer, you should find a good girl. Deng Yihuai also firmly believes that love a bright future.
a challenge for several years, the ideal of “perfect princess” did not find that he fell into the older youth. Gradually the village with the gossip, the parents began to worry. “They urged me every day, just to find a condition that is almost on the line!” Deng Yihuai arranged in the lower phase of the pro-parents, the results of the first meeting the two sides “on the on the eyes”, and soon they will be married.
Xin Wu (Sergeant, 30 years old, unmarried): I now look forward to there is a suitable object of the marriage knot, as I go work without distraction. Each vacation, relatives and friends always ask me with concern when the girlfriend back home, hearing a lot of hard not to feel sour. But I usually very busy, every day, stay in the military, there is little chance of contact with the opposite sex. Like many comrades, as I consider appropriate as long as looked at each other, “flash marriage” can be found as well.
Kang Haiyan (instructor, 29 years old, married 3 years): I am studying psychology in college, the instructor conducted a survey and statistics, the success of the marriage at first sight only 10 %. Love is the basis of marriage, love requires both sides to understand, “flash marriage” will make both sides understand the discount, resulting in an unstable marriage. Although we can not say “flash marriage” who will be discordant, but serious consideration to marry or better.
[new term: naked wedding]
the “substance” of the alternative response
[Glossary] no room, no car, no diamond ring, do not do weddings, not wedding photos, no honeymoon, two people taking pictures wedding photos, marriage registration office to receive a marriage license even if the marriage Zhang the. This is nowadays popular “80″ sought after “naked marriage.”
[typical characters] Huang Xuebin, staff, 28 years old, married two months
Huang Xuebin and his wife is a high school classmate, sophomore year to determine the a relationship. After seven years of “courtship”, before the Spring Festival, they finally decided to enter the marriage hall. The reason why the delay in marriage, a very practical reason: economic conditions do not allow.
“Marriage is a major need all the preparation. Rising wages, the thought of marriage save some money, who knows all aspects of the consumption levels have gone up and our family conditions are general, not willing to ‘Neets’ Seeing a small age, or first married we’ll talk! “talking about his” Naked Wedding “experience, Huang Xuebin a bit helpless.
Liu Wentao (for training staff, aged 29, married 1 year): Many people that if even a place to stay and no, love how the heat? But the reality is many of the “80″ to the marriageable age may not have the ability to have their own house. I think the tradition of the first “live” and then “music industry” mode can be changed to change the marriage, the marriage house, the car can not “step” Do not be concerned about. The military is a dedicated professional emphasis, the first “music industry” and then “live”, two people together to create a future life is not it good?
Zhang Limin (instructor, 26 years old, unmarried): naked wedding this trend is not entirely subject to material conditions. In my opinion, there should be affirmed naked marriage where it is to some extent out of material bondage and secular ideas. “Nude wedding family” with their actions show that feelings are the basis of marriage. Wedding just forms, do not have to do the wedding, honeymoon, a more simple form of marriage should be promoted. I am sure the future will become “naked marriage family.”
[new term: intimate female]
“New Youth” new standard of mate choice
[Glossary] do not value the family background, not demanding the appearance of appearance, just the other side can understand and support their cause, in their heart and soul into the work force, can alone take care of the family as a “rear . ” These women are called “intimate female”, popular among young officers and men.
[typical characters] Xiao Haitao, deputy commander, 26-year-old, married 4 months
Xiaohai Tao is deputy unit commander, key university graduate. In many people’s eyes, he found does not match the marriage: wife, Mary is the rural household, there is no formal job. The two men met by chance after a friend fell in love and eventually come together.
“shoes do not fit known only to themselves, other people’s opinions could not influence me, I saw her this, not some other external things.” Liu Min, although not high level but very capable, home away from home cooking in order. More importantly, in Xiao Haitao Liu Min always give encouragement when needed most. Even if he occasionally angry because of the troubles at work, she can always calm, will resolve the contradictions in the invisible. “With such a wife, who needs?” Xiao Haitao feel very happy too.
Bing Yang (Sergeant, 29 years old, unmarried): Most of the young men are ambitious, determined to do something incredible job at the grassroots level results. The successful man behind the need for a quiet dedication of a woman, married to a husband to support the work of “caring woman,” it will naturally be a lot of young men’s expectations.
Wuwen Kai (instructor, 28 years old, unmarried): Object not necessarily looking for the resident, and all day long “stick” together, but may delay the work of love; election wife does not depend on family conditions, a good family background behind the eyes may be critical. Virtuous, sensible, no grudges, seeking a “caring woman” can make their own peace of mind, threw himself into work.
“80″ after impact is affected by the generation of the market economy is a prominent personality, active-minded generation. Young men in love and marriage on the emergence of new ideas, reflecting their love and understanding and the cause of their own choice, but also to show them based on their own, rooted in the barracks of a good attitude. We sincerely wish them not only “I am the master of love” and “I create my happiness.”
Fuwen Wu, Yuan Shiping , the reporter Chen Dian Wang